Always You First

Normally most of the discomfort start when things happen in the way you doesn't wanted to. You-simply curse everything and everybody for all this but fail to realise that if you want to see things happen the way you want it should be started from within. As the very famous quote points out this world is a mirror, its clear that it shows how we show ourselves in front of it.

If you want to be respected, start immediately to respect yourself and others, unless you respect yourself is it unfair to expect others to respect you, in the same way if you don't respect others also you cannot expect it to be returned.

If you want to control others, learn the art of controlling yourself first, those who doesn't know how to control themselves cannot control anybody.

If you are friendly, you cannot have friends.

If you want justice, you got to be fair enough with others, can't be so silly with others, finding fault with each and other thing you come across with them.

If you want consideration and courtesy be the first to be courteous, and considerate.

If you want to keep your character, be always with good company if not none.

If you want to be popular, stop saying an unkind word, criticise, don't discourage, on the other hand try to help in their desperate times, encourage and be kind.

If these things are kept in mind carried out what everything you expect will come true, always keep one thing mind everything starts from YOU.

It's always YOU FIRST